Every parent's nightmare is having a child not graduate from school. You'll need to consider having an open relationship with your parents. For those who are in high school, it can be ridiculous not to pass, and if you are college, it can be tougher then you expected. There are a lot of reasons why kids don't make it, but if you think for a second that you can quit and come back, you will want to rethink about it. Often people drop out of college because they just can't handle the change. These are the same people who think that after a few semesters they will go back to college and finish, however, you have to consider that there are many ways that life changes. You may end up meeting someone. You may end up having a child. You may end up having to take on more responsibility then you think. It's important that you understand that your failure to graduate from school does not just reflect on you, but your parents.
The reason why parents are so involved in their child's life is because they want to make sure that they are on the right track. They are also convinced that their medaling will keep everyone in line, but it's not always the case. Your parents expect a lot out of you, because they want you to be more than what they are. They want you to be more successful and have a better life. It's hard to deal with the fact that you didn't graduate, but it's even harder to deal with the fact that you let someone down.
If you fail because of the changes in your life, then it is time that you take control over yourself and take responsibility for your actions. A lot of teens find college to be overwhelming. You'll want to keep in mind that therapy can help you deal with all the social and personal insecurities that you may have. Often people stick to themselves when it comes to the first year of college, but you need to learn to let yourself explore the world outside of the box. Basically, you may want to take yourself and almost act to begin to feel comfortable with the new surrounds. Once you allow the acting to get you into the crowds and into the social ring you'll be able to feel accepted and your grades will pick up.
Keep in mind that there is no excuse for you to fail. If you really feel that the work is too hard or getting too hard for you, then you will need to sign up for people to help, like tutors. Often it is paid for in the tuition and you will want to take advantage of having the opportunities. Instead of allowing the situation to get out of hand, you may want to consult your parents and tell them that you are having some difficulty. If tutors are not available through tuition, then your parents will be more than happy to help you pay for a private tutor.
Keep in mind that telling lies about your grades and how you are doing in college is not going to get your anywhere. Of course, you may feel that your life is better when your parents are clueless, however, they will find out eventually. Keep in mind that the grades do get sent home in the mail. It's important that you are honest with your parents from the start so that you can work on the grades and the attitude while still moving forward with your education.
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